Monday, December 24, 2012

Immanuel. Loving The God Who Came To Us



When a couple has a baby, they go through the challenging process of coming up with a name for their child.   For some, like Sharon and I, you poured over books like 1001 baby names…that was before google.  Yes, men we were dragged through all that stuff and then your wife hears a customer at work tell her the name of her daughter….Brynley and she says perfect and I did too.    Then I looked up the meaning of her name and it is of Irish origin meaning ‘burnt meadow’.  Well, we went ahead anyways!

Our name is our identity in many ways and somehow it captures a lot of what it means to be us.  There was a time you could go into a Christian bookstore and get your name on parchment paper with the meaning of it…with my name Jack, it said ‘following the LORD’. I was encouraged until I did further research and realized it is a derivative of Jacob, meaning deceiver…ouch!

Our surname connects us to a family and all the extended relationships that go beyond our immediate family.  Sometimes it identifies where our families originated and the professions.  Now, the name Ninaber is of Dutch origin and no, not every Dutch name begins with Van.  So, our name means “new neighbour” and  apparently my family did a lot of moving around.  I have to admit that Lloyd and I have both done a good job living up to our name!

Well for Mary and Joseph that decision was made easy by the revelation that God had given them.
Jesus.  It is still the name that creates the most controversy.   The name means God saves and He wasn’t the only one with that name at that time as Josephus, a Jewish historian at that time relates that they were other children who were given that name…a derivate of the name Joshua.

When other rulers were trying to make a name for themselves in history, Jesus became the dividing line of history!

I also believe there is power in that Name!

However, today I want to focus on the other name that was prophesied of Jesus and that is Immanuel.

We are going to look at the meaning of that very name, God With Us and break it down in looking at in three parts,  Jesus as God,  Jesus as one who is WITH us, and finally Jesus as one who is FOR us, focusing on the final word US.  I pray that you will love the God who is with us as we walk through this together.
We first need to take a look at where this prophecy Is referenced.

Initial Observations.

Isaiah 7:10-14  Here is one of the background prophecies on our reading from Matthew today.
Then Isaiah said, “Hear now, you house of David! Is it not enough to try the patience of men? Will you try the patience of my God also? 14Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.

It was to the wicked King Ahaz, a man who introduced many new forms of pagan and idolatrous worship.  It was Ahaz who sacrificed his own son to the idol god Molech in 2 Kings 16:3
He was placing more trust in an alliance with the king of Assyria, than with God

Ahaz was the 13th king of Judah of the line of David and began his reign in 742BC and reigned for 17 years.  In the 2nd year of his reign this wicked king was alarmed that Rezin, the king of Syria, and Pekah, the king of Israel, had joined forces to invade Judah and place their own king on the throne in Jerusalem.
Ahaz refused to trust God to provide protection; instead, he took some gold out of Solomon's temple and sent it to the king of Assyria, hoping for his protection. It was at that time that God told Isaiah to go along with his son and trust God rather than Assyria, for all three nations had already been scheduled to be destroyed by God within the next generation.

Even though he failed miserably and didn’t honor or trust God, God kept His promise to us.
Isaiah 7:13Then Isaiah said, “Hear now, you house of David! Is it not enough to try the patience of men? Will you try the patience of my God also? 14Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.

Isaiah 8:8  O Immanuel.  Here the name is used in a place of judgement with the question being, God are you really here with us?

The OT as seen in Isaiah 9:6 came up with many names for the coming Messiah!
Jesus was never called Immanuel as a title during his time on earth.  He never was addressed by that name, but He became a living embodiment of that Name.

Jesus is GOD with us

·         The manner of His conception.  It was a supernatural birth as Mary was found to be with child through the Holy Spiritv18 … reiterated to Joseph in v20 what was conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit

·         The claim that He made of Himself.  John 10:30;14:9  I and the Father are one (in essential essence, in all things completely God;  and to Phillip he said, anyone who has seen me, has seen the Father.  
      
      John 8:58  Before Abraham was born,  I am which was a direct reference to God from Exodus 3:14.  It incensed his audience so much at that point they were ready to stone him

·         The testimony of His apostles …eyewitnesses of His majesty!  2 Peter 1:16  We did not follow clever invented stories.  We heard the voice of the Father affirming His identity.  This is my beloved Son with whom I am well pleased.

·         God incarnate was necessary for our salvation 1 Timothy 2:5

Hebrews 7:25Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.

2 Corinthians 5:19 God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them.

1 Timothy 2:5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all men

Therefore He is able to SAVE completely.  He didn’t say it outright, but He might as well.  Jesus is our God with us.


Jesus is  God WITH us

The Greek word translated “with” (meta) means “face to face with.”  Our God desires intimacy with us.  He has called us His friends. John 15.
In the word God we see His majesty, but in the word WITH we see compassion, we see mercy.  In the word God, we see glory and in the word with, we see love.
He can embrace sinners as His children when they accept the sacrifice of His son.
He is with us through all the experience of our life
He is with us through the indwelling of His Holy Spirit

He is with us in death and beyond

He doesn’t just want to come for a visit at Christmas.  He wants to reside, He wants to be at home with us.


Jesus is God with US

He is Immanuel for all of us.
Everyone can come to Christ.  He is for us not against us…that is an amazing miracle!
The God of the universe in the presence of His Son and the indwelling of His Holy Spirit is for you!
No matter what situation you are in, He is for you!   Just read Romans 8:38,39… nothing can separate us from His love!

Miracles don’t come in nice, pretty wrapping paper like the ones that we assemble under the Christmas tree.  Miracles can really mess things up.  When God shows up, it may not be on your timeline.  It can play with your schedule. 

I rather doubt that Mary and Joseph were planning to go on a honeymoon to Egypt.  It wasn’t on their preferred destination list.

What if Joseph had done what he had in mind to do? He would have missed out on the opportunity to be a father to the Son of God! I don’t have time but just imagine what that was like…being in the carpenter’s shop and teaching your son your craft and then watching Him design and make something so beautiful. That’s my boy! All of the moments, all the experiences, everything growing up, and he had in mind at first to divorce himself from Mary. It would have been so much easier, neater, cleaner. But sometimes you’ve got to stay in the situation that is messy to get to the place where you experience the miracle that God has for you.
 I think, like Joseph, honestly most of us would rather choose to divorce ourselves from difficult situations that God has put us in, because it would be simpler, it would be easier, it would be neater, it would be cleaner.

I can remember sitting in a car with Sharon in London, ON when we were looking for an affordable place to live so I could go to seminary and there I was pouting and saying, “ahh, it’s not going to happen and ready to turn the car around, but thankfully Sharon wouldn’t have anything to do with it!  She was persistent.  God had the perfect place for us.  However sometimes if it gets too hard or too messy, we don’t think it’s God’s will.

We don’t want to complicate things and so we choose to possibly divorce ourselves from someone at church.  We possibly come here and choose not to make eye contact with someone.   They have hurt us in the past or let us down…they didn’t come through and you are probably right, they didn’t. 
For some, we divorce ourselves from friends who offend us.

For others, they divorce themselves from a relationship because they don’t want to be hurt again.
Some have divorced themselves from a dream because we are not sure if we can handle the failure or the disappointment if it doesn’t happen.
So we divorce ourselves from situations, from people, from problems and because of it, we never see the miracle that God intended FOR US!

Here’s the big question…  Are you in a situation, is it something that God has conceived? Is isn’t always easy to discern that.   It is easier to discern if something is conceived by sin. So there are some situations that you are in that are messy because of sin in your life or someone else’s life and there are situations where my advice would be to get out. Get out of that sinful situation because what you are in is not conceived by God, it is conceived by the sin in your heart and in your life. But then there are also situations where it is conceived by God and I know it and I need to stay right where I’m at. I need to see this thing through. If you hang in there, you might just see God move in some amazing ways.

No matter what you circumstance, God is with you!

Corrie Ten Boom whose family hid Jews during WW2 and was forced into a concentration camp said this of God,  even when I am in the deepest pit, God is deeper still.

What does God with us means in 2012?   He is still God with us, we still have His abiding presence.  We bring the love of God wherever we go.

If we are too busy, we can totally miss it.  It does get messy and it does take time  God has put us here for divine appointments – not for judging others, but for loving them.

Sharon and I had a “God With Us” moment in the middle of the mall last week.  We sat down to figure out what was still left on our list and were quickly approached by a deaf person.  We had to choose in that moment to either be generous or sluff it off.  We chose to give and in turn it inspired all those around us as well.  Afterwards, one older gentleman who also gave sat right in front of us and began to question if that money was going to be put to good use.  As I was reminded of the message earlier in the month by John, I said that we need to choose love over judgement.  It would lead to a conversation about God and faith and it was a God appointment.  At the moment it all happened, I have to admit I wasn’t excited about being interrupted and I didn’t go into the mall praying God give us someone to minister to, but we just learned to be open in the moment.

We need the IMMANUEL mindset  - It should be comforting for us as well as challenging.

When others see you in action and how God has used you, most often they want to experience it as well
I challenge all of us to always be open, to be ready for those God appointments.

Here at Grace on a Sunday morning hopefully should be a safe place to try this mindset on.

Before you leave today ask the HS, who do you want me to encourage.

For some of you it might be easier to talk to strangers in the mall.  We often are drawn to the people we are most comfortable around. The same thing is true here at Grace.  People are watching us.  It is contagious and it will lead to great conversations and actions with we move beyond our normal circle of friends.
Well, here’s the truth and that is this Immanuel, God With US!  

He is for you and He designed you to flourish.

John Ortberg writes,  God made you to flourish – to receive life from outside yourself, creating vitality within yourself and producing blessing beyond yourself!
GOD WITH US!

Ephesians 2:10 For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

Immanuel means God with us, but my question for you today is do you want to be with Him and with His people.  Scripture also teaches us that where two or three are gathered, He is in the midst

I have seen a love that abounds here on Sunday morning as someone anonymously gave $500- to another person who they knew was in need in our family here at Grace.  I have seen people who want to be with each other and I have also noticed those who chosen to make eye contact with others.  I have watched today as a small group took the opportunity to help Linda C. by doing the baking for muffins and providing hot chocolate today.  As I have visited with people here at Grace, they have told me that they have sensed the atmosphere changing over the past couple of months.  They notice different people talking and sharing with each other. 

God thank you that you are with me.  Teach us how to practically walk out this vision of a love that abounds.  A God that lives, abides, breathes in me.  As Tom W. shared with me, where sin abounds, may grace abound even more!  Romans 5:20

We are not doing this to take away your friend time.  We are doing this to expand your God view, to see your ministry, to push your further to really see God with us.  I don’t want you to be content with where you are at.  Discover more and love it.  Instead of divorcing ourselves from a situation, let’s learn to be married to it  and discover the joy in committing to seeing it through!

Faith is messy and risky.  Everyone else just goes shopping and does groceries, but you do it with an Immanuel mindset…God with us!  Leave the top of your to do list blank and let God fill it in.
Questions to ask God.

·         Where have I fallen down in a love that abounds?
·         God, I confess my own being busy and missing out.
·         God, what do I need to most remember about an Immanuel mindset…comfort, courage?
·         God who do you want me to minister to today?

Monday, December 17, 2012

Loving The Family Around Us



The Greek word agape (love) seems to have been virtually a Christian invention -- a new word for a new thing (apart from about twenty occurrences in the Greek version of the Old Testament, it is almost non-existent before the New Testament). Agape draws its meaning directly from the revelation of God in Christ. It is not a form of natural affection, however, intense, but a supernatural fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22). It is a matter of will rather than feeling (for Christians must love even those they dislike -- Matt. 5:44-48). It is the basic element in Christ-likeness.                                 

J I Packer

Loving The Family Around Us…

I want to share about two stories in particular that have similar family members involved and that being two sisters, Mary and Martha.  As I read, I want you to ask yourself the question, “Do I find myself more identifying with Mary or with Martha?” 

John 11: 17-37

Initial observations

Martha was a doer.   

She confronts with Jesus with what she appears to be a lack of sensitivity on His part, but still has BOLD  faith to believe that Jesus could completely turn the situation around.
“But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”
Where is Mary…she is at home

Mary is caught up in the moment, in the grief, in the death statement itself.  Where was Mary when Martha went out looking for Jesus.  She was at home.  She was being comforted in her grief.
She waits to be called.

Luke 10:38-42

Initial Observations

Jesus had friends.  He chose to be in a close relationship with Mary, Martha and Lazarus.  He stays at their home, he cares for them and he loves them. 
They minister to Jesus like family.  While Jesus is ministering to the multitudes, here is a group of people who are sensitive to His needs to come apart, to rest and to be refreshed.

This passage is all about welcoming a guest into our home, it is all about hospitality and the person being loved is Jesus.  All too often coming to church can become about business and getting things done, albeit good things like setting up appointments, completing the tasks that we need to do and we miss out on the best appointments, the divine-led ones because we all too easily get distracted about the business of church life.  As a pastor I know that I can be the most guilty of this.

Are you a Mary or a Martha?

Mary Is more contemplative, she is drawn to spiritual disciplines like solitude, extended prayer, journaling.   Mary is a BE person
Martha is more of an activist, she is the doer, she wants to be out there serving, ministering, teaching,
Martha is a realist, she is also matter of fact and practical.  Jesus, are you sure, my brother has been dead for four days!  It is really going to stink in there.
Mary is the one who is drawn into the moment, feels the weight of the situation she finds herself in


Choosing To Love v38,39

I think what we sometimes do is to immediately see the course correction that was needed in Martha’s life.  We gravitate towards Mary because of her devotion and look at Martha as distracted. 

I believe both women were choosing to love Jesus in the way that they both understood best how to love.  We know from reading the end of this passage that Mary got it right in that moment; however let’s not lose sight of the fact that it was Martha who welcomed Jesus into her home.  It is identified as her place.  She had the initial thought and she was the host.

Have you ever been a host and in charge of all the details for an event? It is so hard to “be in the moment” when you are serving others.  I experienced this the other night as we hosted the youth for the dessert portion of their progressive dinner.  I was focused on scooping up the ice cream, keeping the waffles coming and making sure stuff was put away before it went bad.  I was picking up plates, draining pop…no spills for this dutch clean freak!  Eventually, I did finally sit down and connect with a few people later in the evening.  However I have also been in someone else’s home while they were hosting, albeit feeling the compelling urge to help out, but choosing to stay in conversation with others.

Loving People The Way I Want To Be Loved v40

Martha, a doer, was overwhelmed in the moment and was really irritated by Mary’s complete lack of awareness to the situation at hand.  So, Martha is frantically working on preparing an amazing meal for her special guest and she is thinking I want to put on a lavish meal for Him.  It was a worthy endeavor from a human perspective.  After all, Jesus had been travelling from Galilee and made his way all to Bethany just outside of Jerusalem about 100km on foot!

She most likely thought how would I want someone to treat me in this situation?  I would really appreciate someone to wash my feet and replenish my body.  Unfortunately as good as her intentions were, it missed the mark.

When we love people the way that we want to be loved, we may get it right.  They may receive love and appreciate love the way that we do; however, there is a better way but it takes time o really listen to the heart of another person tand it takes prayer I believe to really fulfill that need in another family member’s life.

Loving People The Way They Were Created To Receive Love v41,42

However, Jesus was approaching the final stage of his ministry and  knew He was heading towards the excruciating journey to the cross.  He didn’t need an elaborate meal, He needed quietness and someone to listen.

There is an important lesson here: We need to help people in the way that they want to be helped, not necessarily in the way that we want to help them.
Many of you are familiar with a book called the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.  In that book, he describes five ways that we receive and give love and often the way that we show love is the way that we look to receive it.

The Five Love Languages  published in ’92 by  Gary Chapman has been really insightful on understanding how to love people. 

They are: Receiving Gifts / Quality Time / Words of Affirmation/ Acts of Service / Physical Touch.  There is now the five love languages for children, teens…  Take the survey to discover who you are at  www.5lovelanguages.com

I have broken down these five gift into two categories.

The gifts of a “doer”  - Martha

Acts of service –
These are those who show love and expect it by doing things for their spouse or other people. Doing acts of service comes naturally to them, they’ll volunteer to do anything (in-fact sometimes you have to stop them). An act of service husband would have no problem washing dishes, ironing or doing other domestic chores, his way of showing love to his wife is usually by keeping the house (inside or outside) clean and doing it is not a chore.

Giving gifts –
people who show love by giving gifts are interesting people, to many of them that I know, it is not the gift that makes them happy (of course everyone likes a great gift once in a while) but the thought behind the gift is huge. The regularity is the giving is also very important, a spouse of this person will do well with small gifts (might not even be something that cost money) most of the time with occasional expensive stuff.

However it is also interesting to note that just because you choose to show love this way doesn’t mean that this is the way that you want to receive love in the same manner.


The Gifts of a “BE person” Mary

Words of affirmation –

The people who work in this gifting know how to affirm the qualities, talents and really see the wonderful qualities in others.  They look for something good in anyone to affirm that person. A word of affirmation wife would have no problem saying nice things to her husband but would have serious problem if he is not reciprocating the gesture.

Physical touch –

This gift is shown in an awareness of the other person in that they show compassion through touch, an arm around the shoulder, a hug of appreciation.  As a couple, it could be the simple things like holding hands, showing warmth etc…

Quality time –

A quality time husband or wife love their spouse to be with them always, they’ll avoid social functions if their spouse can’t make it – hobbies would be more fun if the husband/wife participates with them, like any language this has different dialects, some love to be indoors (just be in the same house with me), and for some they want their spouse to go for company events and walks with them.

I am naturally by default a “doer” and so in my home, my default way of showing love to Sharon and to my children is to do stuff for them, help with lunches, keep the house clean. 

It is interesting to see how they all respond differently to that. 

We need to come to appreciate and understand that the other person’s effort should be appreciated even when they are not speaking your love language.   Sharon knows that sitting on the couch and really listening intently in conversation in not my greatest strength


Questions we need to honestly ask of ourselves.

How do you arrive here on Sunday mornings….are you distracted, anxious, rushed?  Do you come anticipating what the Lord will reveal to us?  Are you just too busy to even contemplate how God may want to use you in this time?  You just may have the “Martha syndrome”

There are people here on a Sunday morning who need to receive expressions of love from you.  You have been holding back possibly because you are waiting for them to take the first step.  Agape love initiates, it takes the lead, it puts itself out there.

There are people here who may be trying to show you love but you haven’t received it or valued it because it isn’t your love language.  You need to show appreciation for that expression of love.

This is our home here Grace on Sunday mornings and those of us who serve actively up and front and behind the scenes are in many ways like the hosts of a home.  We can very easily be like the Marthas, caught up and distracted and there is much we can learn from the “be-people” about being in the moment.  For those of you who are in the moment, we need you to recognize and appreciate the doers for creating the time and space for a love that abounds.

Mark Driscoll shared it best when he said…

Worship, then work. Worship God before you work so that you could worship God in your work. And do the work that God has called you to do, not chasing your potential, but pursuing your calling. Not volunteering yourself as the savior of the world to plug every hole and meet every need. That job’s already taken. And instead to spend time with the savior of the world, asking him what portion of the mission he’s entrusted to your service. So we want Mary’s heart and we want Martha’s hands. Amen? That’s what we want. We want Mary’s heart, Martha’s hands.

Prayer

LORD, as we have met today, I pray that we would have the heart of Mary, to be submissive, to listen to what you have to say to us God.  I pray for those of us with “Martha- like tendencies” that we wouldn’t be distracted, feel the compelling urge to check our phones or be working on our to do lists.  I pray that we would be able to concentrate on what you have for us in this time together where love abounds!

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

He loves me...He loves me not?





It is interesting to note that at least seven of the twelve disciples that Jesus called were fishermen.  Why fishermen?  For one, they do not quit!  They know how to take orders and they know how to work together.  Were they wrong in returning to their vocation of fishing?  Most would argue, yes, as they lost sense of their vision and purpose.  It would appear that they had lost their sense of mission and vision and went back to their former vocation.  They had been out fishing all night and had caught absolutely nothing. 

It was Jesus who took control of the situation and brought them back to their real calling.  Thanks to Jesus they make a miraculous catch of 153 fish and they recognize very quickly that this is not an ordinary situation.

Peter in his typical impulsive fashion can’t wait for the boat to return to shore so he jumps in the water, does 100 yard freestyle and arrives on the scene first! 

There are three strong invitations in the book of John:

1.            Come and see 1:39
2.            Come and drink 7:37
3.            Come and dine (have breakfast!) 21:12

Peter and Jesus have already met privately as seen in Luke 24:34; 1 Corinthians 15:5 and most likely dealt with his sin of denial in that place. This time together was to reinstate Peter to a place of ministry.  Remember that this is happening around a fire with all the other disciples present and listening in on the conversation.  The imagery that Jesus uses with Peter is to feed His lambs (young believers) and feed His sheep (mature believers).
In John 21, Jesus challenges Peter 3x with the question, “Do you love me”
Why did Jesus ask Peter 3x that very question?  Some have simply said that it was in response to the 3 denials that Peter made when he was asked if he knew Jesus prior to his crucifixion.  It was quite a scene, he was so adamant he didn’t know Jesus that he swore to really get everyone’s attention.
So, who was running with Peter when he made those denials of Jesus? You’re a failure, you are certainly not the rock, this is who you really are!
However, I believe Jesus did something really significant when He asked Peter the question, ‘do you love me?’    He was calling Peter back out of his old life and restoring to Him a place of ministry.  He was in effect saying, “your sin, your failure, your wounding doesn’t change the way I feel about you.”
In the first two times Jesus asks the question, do you love me he is referring to this “agape” love.  He was in essence asking Him to love sacrificially.
“Simon, son of John, do you truly love me more than these?” v15a
He first called him out on his boldness.  It was Peter who said, “Even if all fall away, I will not.” Mark 14:29; and after Jesus gave his command to “love one another” in John 13:35, it was Peter who said “I will lay down my life for you.”
“Yes Lord, “ he said, “you know that I love you” v15b
Peter responds with a love of fondness; phileo love, not a love greater than all others.
Again, Jesus asks do you truly love me and Peter pleads to the Lord’s omniscience, “you know that I love you.”
However, the last time Jesus asks Peter do you love me, the word here is ‘phileo’ – the love of friendship.  He is calling Peter back to relationship.  This is the brotherly/friendship type of love.
Jesus makes “the ask.”  Take care of my sheep.  We are all called to take care of each other, to hold others in greater esteem than ourselves.
This is the kind of love I believe God is calling us to, we are called to the highest standard of love, but God is also calling us to relationship with Himself and with each other.
What is the message?  You may have failed the LORD miserably, but He still loves you and wants you to show and express that same grace with others.  The most important thing we can do is love Jesus because if we really love Jesus and experience His love for us, we will have the capacity to love one another!

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Why love?



It has been said that love is elusive, watered down…. people talk about love in the way that they love a restaurant, love pizza, love ginger snap cookies and I love you like a love song…well that is how she felt until last weekend…

And then there are the songs that we have been made popular in our part of the world, like
“All We Need is Love”, “What the World Needs Now is Love”, “Can You Feel the Love Tonight?”

From a human perspective, love can make you crazy.  It can bring lightness to your step and it can also crush your spirit.  The words of love can also be a mask for selfish hunger.

I came across some stats recently as it was discovered that 92% of the people said they loved children, animals were at 66% and only 33% would acknowledge loving themselves.  We have a perfect opportunity to show love and while people are looking for love in all the wrong places…
We are praying for us now that this will be a time and a place where love abounds!

Turn to  1 John 4:7-21

God is love. v7-12
"God is love." As  John R. W. Stott says, "This is the most comprehensive and sublime of all the biblical affirmations of God's being." It means that at the root of all God does is love. No matter how difficult it may appear to us, the fountain from which all God's activity stems is this kind of self-giving love.
In my own words love is simple yet profound!


·         He is the initiator of this love v7-9

John spoke of this last week when He said Christ’s love was uncaused.  It had nothing to do with us.  It was initiated by God.  We love him because He first loved us is how the NKJV puts it in v19.
Nothing outside of Himself draws us to Him.  This is not a try harder kind of love.  It is a deliberate choice on his part to love us.
One of the biggest traps in the Christian life is that “ I must do this or that to gain God’s approval.” 
It is an undeserved love.  Our own righteous acts are like filthy rags.  Isaiah 64:6
And yet, often I think people are out there feeling that they are not worthy of that kind of love as we saw in the stats I just shared.
God is love is as John Stott said “is the most comprehensive and sublime of all the biblical affirmations of God’s being.”  It means that at the root of everything that God does is love.  The place from where the river flows is His self-giving love.

The Father’s Love Letter…. A must read    www.fathersloveletter.com

Last week in our staff meeting, Esther shared a really great insight in this story of us and our heavenly Father who adopted us.  In most cases an adopted family seeks out a child that has chosen to be left or abandoned by their real parents.  However, it was us as children who did the abandoning and God sacrificed His real Son in order to adopt us, the ones who did the abandoning!
We need to really soak in receiving this love.  Many of us have lived the Christian life on an achieving system and we need to move to a place of receiving where we allow His love to penetrate our hearts and minds

·         His love is sacrificial v10

In the Greek language there are three types of love and many of you may be familiar with these three words as related in the Greek.  There is  eros, philo, and agape love.  Briefly, eros love is a strong craving, abnormal appetite, not only for physical things but it can also be for spiritual satisfaction.  Eros love can be both good and bad.  We often see this as the world seeking satisfaction wherever it can.  Phileo love is more of an attachment and a peculiar personal affection for another person.  We often see this as a natural human affection for one another. 
Finally, there is agape love.  This is the only love that our Scripture passage speaks about to us today.  Agape love is Christian love, the love that God has for us.  This love requires a judgment and a deliberate choice on one’s part. 
We need to pray and say Holy Spirit make me desperate for this kind of love to be made real in my life.
It is the love that covers a multitude of sins, a love that turns the other cheek, it’s a love that always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  1 Corinthians 13
1 John 4:9 ESV In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.

·         His love is made visible through us  v11,12

We are called to live in that kind of love.  Often when I hear the words, “you always or you never” it is used in a negative sense and when working with people, the counsel is to stay away from the absolutes, but here it is pure positive! 
Agape LOVE…. This is the most difficult love for us to have for one another and here’s a secret, you can’t truly love like this apart from the love of God becoming real in your own heart. 
It’s IN YOU to love!   How do I know this?
You ought to love one another
God is telling us we ought to love one another.  Based on what He has done for us, we are commanded to love each other. 
"Oh, I just can't love that person. You don't know what they are like. However, if you have been to the cross and you have experienced His unfailing love, it changes you.
Oh, I just can’t love that person…exactly!  We love through His love for us.
The nature of real love is that it gives…ought means that it will happen.  It is a cause and effect truth. 
Yes, it is a process, but at some point the tap will open up.  God loves us and by faith we accept it.  We then love ourselves in a balanced way, love our Father and learn to love other people.

I once had a t-shirt that always brought a smile.
It said
Jesus Loves You
and below it….   I’m trying.  

I really thought that way about love; however the real truth that if it my love, it will always 
come up short. 

At some point, if God’s love is really taking hold in my heart, I will choose to love others lavishly and deeply.

There is a story of a woman with a reputation in Luke 7.  She was a woman caught in the grip of sexual sin.  She shows up at the home of a prominent religious man where Jesus had been invited over.  She creates an uncomfortable scene as she begins to wipe Jesus’ feet with her tears and then her hair.  She then proceeds to kiss them and poured very expensive perfume on them.

The religious people are all thinking to themselves, does He not know who this woman is and how inappropriate this is?  Jesus interrupts their thoughts and tells them a story of a money lender who cancels the debt of two men, one who owed $500- and one who owed $50-.  He then asks the question, who loves the money lender more and of course the reply, the one who had been forgiven the greater debt…

So, then Jesus continues to speak,

“Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven–for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little.”

It is to the extent that we realize the depths of God’s love for us that we will finally get it…because we all have been forgiven so much!


No one has ever seen God.  God is invisible, but He is calling us to make the invisible visible by our loving acts, deliberate acts of kindness, thoughtfulness and consideration of one another.  Some people may never hear the gospel according to Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, but they can see the gospel according to you!

It has been said that the most effective people at showing love are those who don’t give from a distance, but those who are actively engaged in community.  Incarnation is love in action
The difficult question is:  To what extent do I give up my own level of comfort to love others?  Am I willing to spend myself for the life of another?

Christian love is found in what we sacrificially give to others.  It has been simply said that in this world, there are givers and there are takers.  We have been called to be givers.

His love is made complete in us v13

We saw in v11 that His love is made complete in us.  People see God when we love one another well!
This is not an individualistic exercise.  Our love is made complete in the practical outworking of its quality in our interaction with others and it really does go against the grain.
·         Through the presence of the Holy Spirit
·         Through our reliance on what Jesus has done

Everyone longs to be loved and accepted.  The unfortunate thing is that most people approach it the wrong way.  They keep looking to receive from everywhere else first before the Father.  The love of God is really the most wonderful gift we’ve been given. 
Once it flows to us, it needs to flow from us to others or else it becomes stagnant.  It can’t help but flow.

His love makes us confident v16b-18

God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. 1 John 4:16b17

His love displayed through us isn’t optional! V19-21

One word…. must!   It must flow, but it has to start with understanding His love for us!

For some of you, you need to walk across the room to the person that you may have been holding a grudge against for possibly years…
The enemy wants to limit us.  He wants us to believe a vision “for a time and a place where love abounds” will not amount to anything.
Grace living in this love is impossible to achieve, that is why we have to receive it.  Live in this love and let the transformation continue to take hold!
Listen for the Spirit’s prompting as you look around and look for someone who is here and who maybe isn’t here that you would be active in sharing into their life.  It could be sharing their burden, it could be sharing their joy. 

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Just A Thought


I made a statement with reference to the place of His abiding presence a few weeks ago  “To the extent that your heart and mind are yielded to the Spirit of God, you can trust your own thoughts.”

I've given it more thought...

I heard Lloyd J Ogilvie make a very similar statement and it really spoke to me.


I  believe that when we are in that place of surrender and when we are listening, He will fill us with godly thoughts and actions.  The verses that speak to me most on this subject are John 15:7.

John 15:7  If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.  How can I really get to that place where I can ask whatever I wish?  I think the only time I can do that is when I truly am remaining in Him.

Romans 8:6  So letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace.  This verse also speaks about a place where we actually can  have the Spirit of God controlling our minds.

I once heard John MacArthur speak on God’s will and he spoke of the 5 S’s – being saved, sanctified, Spirit-filled, submissive and be willing to suffer.  He then finished his book by saying if you do these five things, you can do whatever you want meaning if these are the controlling factors in your life, your decisions will be guided by all of the above. 

I know I can trust my own thoughts only when I am in that place of yielding to His Spirit’s leading in my life.

I have heard prayer defined as "aligning our will with His will for us."  I agree and my belief is that our thoughts become aligned with His thoughts for us when we are abiding in the presence of Christ and you could say under the influence of the Holy Spirit as well.  

This is truly a place where His love abides!