I was talking to a friend this week who is a treasurer at his church and his pastor approached about the possibility of doing a message on giving. He looked at him and said, "It's in the Bible, isn't it!" and yes, the subject of giving shows up over 2500 times!
The joy of giving is actually part of the nature of God. God delights in giving and when we take the opportunity to give, we allow not only the flow of His presence, but the flow of His joy to permeate us. He sensitizes us to giving through the poverty and tragedies of others as well as the lack and trials in our own lives. Are we able to give even when we are unsure of our financial position? God continually wants to show us that the need will always be greater than our resources. Aare we ready to turn on the tap first and let the flow be released through us? Pray a prayer of preparation this week to the Lord and tell Him YES! Let it start in me!
We will be working through 2 Corinthians 8:1-15
The undeniable challenge of giving v 1-3
The desire to give isn’t about emotional appeals as good as they are. It isn’t about a clear cut presentation as sharp as they can be. It is about the inner motivation of the Spirit of God because when the Spirit of God touches your heart, it is a motivation that will be able to be sustained.
I can’t overstate the fact that the Spirit has to grip our hearts in response to a genuine need.
The condition of the Macedonian churches is not a bright one. They were dealing with their own inadequacies but didn’t let that blind them to those who were even in more desperate need. Paul describes these churches as those that were under severe trials and extreme poverty!
The severe trials they were facing related directly to the active persecution they were constantly under.
Their extreme poverty was the result of their land being exploited by their Roman conquerors who took complete advantage of their natural resources for themselves. There had also been a succession of civil wars that had been fought on their soil prior to Augustus becoming the sole emperor as well.
Giving always should challenge us to go beyond our means to the place of His provision. It has to be about faith and watching God fill up our supply again. We are filled to be emptied to be filled again with fresh living waters again and again! We start to realize that He is the God of infinite resources.
The undeniable privilege of giving v4,5
We give ourselves to God first. The ability to give ultimately comes first from God. Let me remind you again that God doesn’t need our money.
‘The crowning point of their surrender was their complete self surrender.’ R. Tasker
Acts 20:35 It is more blessed to give than to receive. Make no mistake about it, giving transforms us. Often we go on a missions trip or a serving project to minister to others and yet we leave being the most blessed.
The undeniable call to excel in giving v6,7
Paul is challenging them it is not enough to have great faith, honourable speech, solid knowledge, we have to be known as those who lead the way in respect to giving.
Think of two triangles. One rests upside down, on its point and rises up to spread out. The other is in the normal position like a pyramid with the point on top.
• The normal triangle
How many of you have been in a pyramid scheme? We have all heard about them and it is all about getting enough people under you to sustain your wealth. Unfortunately what happen in the normal triangle is that the closer we get to the top, the less we give and the more we focus on the ‘take’ and so the tip represents the very slim amount of giving that is done by the majority of those in this position of wealth.
Even those outside the church understand the futility of the normal triangle!
If your only goal is to become rich, you will never achieve it."
- John D. Rockefeller: American industrialist and philanthropist
- John D. Rockefeller: American industrialist and philanthropist
If you lock in to a goal to improve your relationships, your health, or your career track, you probably will. But achieving prosperity is a little different. You have to sneak up on it from behind. Goals to become rich fall flat - but setting goals to improve the lives of as many people as possible... that's the precise minute you follow the footsteps to prosperity.
• The inverted triangle
The upside triangle represents biblical giving that continues to give with it lines always be spread out, and the bottom at a point. The bottom represents the desire to keep investing our money in what lasts for eternity so our focus is always upward. God always gives us enough to live on, but it is His great desire that we will learn to give in abundance.
This is area that unfortunately Christians have a bad rap at restaurants. I have heard stories told of disillusioned waitresses at church chicken otherwise known as Swiss Chalet. They do not enjoy working especially on Sunday afternoons because of the church crowd. However, I want to contrast that with my first pastor, Don Howard, with whom almost always every staff meeting turned into lunch at the Swiss. It would be there that he taught not only generosity but how to share the gospel and one waitress came to faith in Jesus!
The undeniable call to completion in giving v8-12
I can’t overstate enough the calling we have to follow through on our commitments and not to say one thing and do quite the contrary by our actions. Jesus was the ultimate pace setter and is our prime example of giving. He poured out Himself completely for us, He gave us His everything.
Hebrews 12:2 Jesus, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross!
It was the Moravian missionaries who were driven by their motto, “Worthy is the Lamb to receive His reward”. The driving force in their life was their motivation of gratitude for Christ’s sacrifice. It began as a movement of prayer under John Hus in the late 14th century. They were the movement that kept watch in prayer 24/7 for over 100 years. It was out of this focus that birthed the first large scale Protestant missionary movement sending out ordinary people to reach out to the unreached.
There is an incredible sense of fulfillment that we feel when we have matched our actions with our words. It is that place where we can step back for a moment and say it is time to dance, it is time to rejoice in what God has done through us that we are ready to do it again.
In Nehemiah 6:15 we read about the children of Israel completing the wall and what is the result in 8:10 - the call to revel that the joy of the Lord is our strength.
Paul couldn’t command this kind of giving. There is an element of spontaneity in Christian love that we don’t let giving turn into a work of the law. However, having said that, it is clear that an ungenerous believer is not the testimony that we are to be known for.
The undeniable call to equality in giving v13-15
There is this understanding that is created in this desire to give that we are in this together. There is a mutual realization that when we are truly there for others and meet their needs that in turn should we be in a similar predicament that they will be there for us. It is basically saying, “Brother, I got your back. I know you have mine now and it will not be forgotten. “ We are called to remember each other and not take gifts for granted. The gift is given with no obligation or commitment to pay it back, but the sense of goodwill that will always carry on.
Paul reminds them of the truth of what took place in the desert when the children of Israel would only gather enough to meet their needs. It was designed to teach them not to hoard, but to always be sensitive to the needs of others as much as they realized their own needs were being met.
Final Thoughts on GIVING
Comprised from Dave Ramsey ‘The Great Misunderstanding’
#1 God owns it all.(period)
The earth is the LORD's, and everything in it,
the world, and all who live in it; Psalm 24:1
#2 We are His stewards. We are in a fiduciary relationship with God. I am called to be a manager and He is the estate owner. As long as I keep that perspective I will do well. It is when I get that switched around that it all goes bad very fast. When you are a manager, it is easier to give...WHY? ...because it is someone else’ money.
I had this experience when I went to India and my mom sent me with a large sum of money to bless individual ministries. I can’t tell you how much fun that is!!
Now, the word steward comes from old English times. It is definitely not a word that we hear today, but it comes from the time of Braveheart, the time of castles when they were lords, nobles and stewards. The steward was the one who took you on the tour of the castle and knew everything about it and where everything was found and did everything at the bidding of their lord.
#3 God doesn’t need my money and neither does the church.
God wants you to learn to give Him complete control and as for the church, we just need sold out believers who live in the power of the HS and the by product of that is giving!
#4 We are made in His image, we are His imprint. We can’t say we are like Christ when we are not givers. Even when giving feels mechanical, every mechanical act of giving will teach me that is less about me and more about Him. It moves me to become less and less selfish. The only place selfish people prosper is on TV.
#5 When you start giving, stuff happens!
Less selfish people are known to be more prosperous in relationships and in wealth. The more you release, the more you will have. We are most fulfilled when we are serving and giving.
#6 Giving is an area of spiritual warfare.
The enemy in the form of crying out in complete selfishness will always squeal when we learn to give more away. Giving also set me free from my addiction to stuff!
#7 God promises to bless those who give.
The root word of blessing means peace. It doesn’t me a BMW will automatically show up in your driveway, but it will be all the immaterial blessings that money never could buy in the first place and it is about storing up treasures in heaven where there will be the ultimate return in the relationships and friendships of those who came along the way.
S Martin tells the story of one of the richest families in church not too long after WW2
I'll never forget the Easter of 1946. I was 14, my little sister Ocy was 12, and my older sister Darlene was 16. We lived at home with our mother, and the four of us knew what it was to do without many things. My dad had died 5 years before, leaving Mom with seven children to raise and no money. By 1946, my older sisters were married and my brothers had left home.
A month before Easter, the pastor of our church announced that a special Easter offering would be taken to help a poor family. He asked everyone to save and give sacrificially. When we got home, we talked about what we could do. We decided to buy 50 pounds of potatoes and live on them for a month. This would allow us to save $20 of our grocery money for the offering. Then we thought that if we kept our electric lights turned out as much as possible and didn't listen to the radio, we'd save money on that month's electric bill.
Darlene got as many house and yard cleaning jobs as possible, and both of us baby sat for everyone we could. For 15 cents, we could buy enough cotton loops to make three potholders to sell for $1. We made $20 on potholders. That month was one of the best of our lives. Every day we counted the money to see how much we had saved. At night we'd sit in the dark and talk about how the poor family was going to enjoy having the money the church would give them. We had about 80 people in church, so we figured that whatever amount of money we had to give, the offering would surely be 20 times that much. After all, every Sunday the Pastor had reminded everyone to save for the sacrificial offering.
The day before Easter, Ocy and I walked to the grocery store and got the manager to give us three crisp $20 bills and one $10 bill for all our change. We ran all the way home to show Mom and Darlene. We had never had so much money before. That night we were so excited we could hardly sleep. We didn't care that we wouldn't have new clothes for Easter; we had $70 for the sacrificial offering. We could hardly wait to get to church!
On Sunday morning, rain was pouring. We didn't own an umbrella, and the church was over a mile from our home, but it didn't seem to matter how wet we got. Darlene had cardboard in her shoes to fill the holes. The cardboard came apart, and her feet got wet. But we sat in church proudly. I heard some teenagers talking about the Smith girls having on their old dresses. I looked at them in their new clothes, and I felt so rich.
When the sacrificial offering was taken, we were sitting on the second row from the front. Mom put in the $10 bill, and each of us girls put in a $20 bill.
As we walked home after church, we sang all the way. At lunch Mom had a surprise for us. She had bought a dozen eggs, and we had boiled Easter eggs with our fried potatoes!
Late that afternoon, the minister drove up in his car. Mom went to the door, talked with him for a moment, and then came back with an envelope in her hand. We asked what it was, but she didn't say a word. She opened the envelope and out fell a bunch of money. There were three crisp $20 bills, one $10 and seventeen $1 bills. Mom put the money back in the envelope. We didn't talk, just sat and stared at the floor. We had gone from feeling like millionaires to feeling like poor white trash.
We kids had had such a happy life that we felt sorry for anyone who didn't have our mom and dad for parents and a house full of brothers and sisters and other kids visiting constantly. We thought it was fun to share silverware and see whether we got the fork or the spoon that night. We had two knives, which we passed around to whoever needed them.
I knew we didn't have a lot of things that other people had, but I'd never thought we were poor. That Easter Day I found out we were. The minister had brought us the money for the poor family, so we must be poor. I didn't like being poor. I looked at my dress and worn-out shoes and felt so ashamed that I didn't want to go back to church.
Everyone there probably already knew we were poor! I thought about school. I was in the ninth grade and at the top of my class of over 100 students. I wondered if the kids at school knew we were poor. I decided I could quit school since I had finished the eighth grade. That was all the law required at that time.
We sat in silence for a long time. Then it got dark, and we went to bed. All that week, we girls went to school and came home, and no one talked much. Finally on Saturday, Mom asked us what we wanted to do with the money. What did poor people do with money? We didn't know. We'd never known we were poor.
We didn't want to go to church on Sunday, but Mom said we had to. Although it was a sunny day, we didn't talk on the way. Mom started to sing, but no one joined in and she only sang one verse. At church, we had a missionary speaker. He talked about how churches in Africa made buildings out of sun-dried bricks, but they need money to buy roofs. He said $100 would put a roof on a church. The minister said, "Can't we all sacrifice to help these poor people?"
We looked at each other and smiled for the first time in a week. Mom reached into her purse and pulled out the envelope. She passed it to Darlene.
Darlene gave it to me, and I handed it to Ocy. Ocy put it in the offering. When the offering was counted, the minister announced that it was a little over $100. The missionary was excited. He hadn't expected such a large offering from our small church.
He said, "You must have some rich people in this church!"
Suddenly it struck us! We had given $87 of that "little over $100." We were the rich family in the church! Hadn't the missionary said so?
From that day on, I've never been poor again.
The Takeaway
We are most joyful where we become poor in order to become rich!
Questions For Discussion
1. Why does God tell us to give so often?
2. What is giving a reminder of?
3. What was the function of the OT storehouse?
4. Is the tithe pre-law? Genesis 14. What does the tithe stand for?
5. Has anyone surprised you with a meaningful act of giving? How did that make you feel?